From the stringent demands of slave training to the delicate intricacies that make what i do art, I have spent hundreds of hours learning the arts of Sadomasochism, thousands more honing my craft.
A Sadist at heart, I am trained, versed, a
nd practiced in all areas of BDSM; dynamics, fetishes, kinks, and role-plays. My particular pleasures most resemble a “reaction fetishist” and are focused using the most effective means possible in order to elicit a form of torment and suffering (not limited to pain) which I then thoroughly enjoy.
Individuals I play with are quick to learn that I am not some novice service provider. I was blessed to be able to devote years to the honing of my sadistic arts beginning in 2004. You are potentially the beneficiary of that 24/7 focus. I have had countless play experiences in a myriad of environments so I understand that chemistry goes beyond activity, and more and more I seek variety in play with individuals who I enjoy on multiple levels. Introduce yourself as a whole and leave the objectification to me.
Interested parties will find that I offer strictly fetish for individuals and couples. I don’t particularly care for the angry bitch demeanor but have been known to be inspired. I am generally firm but warm with a dry sense of humor (Mary Poppins-esque if you can picture her as a Dominatrix). My succinct writing style belies my love of conversation and inquisition. I take my scenes seriously, but not so to-the-grave as I do my pre-session negotiation.
Negotiations are always conducted out of character. I suggest you approach me with a clear and sober head.
I expect to be treated and spoken to with respect no matter what your interests are or how you identify. Remember that you are asking me to engage in one of my greatest passions with you. Also remember that I am under no obligation to fulfill any or all of your fantasy.
My dungeons are impeccably equipped with most anything you can imagine and even more you can’t.
While I freely admit I often make things up as I go, I always seek symbiotic exchanges with my play partners. I never pretend to know what I’m doing, and safety is my greatest concern. I see distinct differences between hurt and harm, and I don’t believe safety must be abandoned in order to enjoy dangerous play. Requests perceived as harmful will be modified or abandoned.
As my particular fetishes for eliciting reaction require me to enjoy being flexible with my torments, I find it much easier to cover my limits than list my proficiencies.
No sex or fluid/fecal exchange.
No dirty asses. If you shit on me or mine, you’re paying dry cleaning.
No nudity on my part.
No infantilism.
No smothering, ass or breast worship/groping.
No stinky feet requests. I just don’t have them.
No blackmail fantasies that continue outside of the individual scene.
No arguments about limits, soft or hard.
And remember: your no may mean yes, but mine always means no.
Podcast interviews with me can be found [here].
Some Scattered Reviews can be found in the blog archives and a variety of bdsm review sites.
I am looking for smart, healthy, adventurous individuals who understand the limits of our engagements. Before you ask, know that my personal stable has all the basics- and then some- covered by the slaves of my leather family. Consideration for service is only done after serious deliberations and reference checks. I NEVER take applications for personal slave positions. I do, however, love coconut and chocolate confections as well as welcome patrons for my arts.
Fair warning: anyone who doesn’t interest me or offends me with their introduction by ignoring all this wonderful non redundant information and instruction I’ve put forth will find their session request either ignored or denied. I’m only interested in people who are serious enough about who they entrust with their kink and safety to look carefully at who they contact. Our “relationship” may be casual, but my decision to play with someone never is.
All emails will be attended to at my earliest convenience. I welcome serious and thoughtful inquiries.
Have a lovely day.
KissKiss
~The Sadist
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