Someone asked me today how I balance my BDSM and vanilla life. It’s been a long time since someone has asked me that question and a lot has changed. My lover is my live in collared slave just for starters. I greatly value the incredible balance my life has found- and so I had to [...]
Hi Ma’am, I was thinking back a bit earlier to how I came to be who I am today. I remember years of suppressing myself and then happening to be on a business trip to Boston. I figured I’d include a weekend in NY on the way home. I tried to think of ways to [...]
I was just lying on the couch, listening to This American Life, and my mind began to wander to the events of last night. Over and over again I had these beautiful lithe women clamoring to climb over my lap or feel the caress of my floggers. Over and over again I claimed their moans [...]
I’m home from my little getaway and glad to be able to cook my own food again, but missing the sunny tropical paradise amidst this turbulent spring weather. I stayed at the NH Royal Beach of the Dominican Republic which has very beautiful grounds and a gorgeous topless optional beach. A literal paradise on the [...]
I’ve got butterflies in my stomach. I love surprises! I love travel! I LOVE adventures! Tonight my slave Axe is taking me away on a mysterious vacation to an undisclosed location in the Caribbean. I’ve got my camera. I’ve got my passport. I’ve got my swimsuit. I am so ready. See you all after the [...]
My girlfriend Mona is in town from LA, and when she’s in town you know fun things are going to happen. Last night she and I had an impromptu needle play class in my apartment- My slave once again finding himself in the right place at the right time. It felt so good to have [...]
The time of the Don Juan of Strap On, I’m afraid, has passed. I’ve indiscriminately raped every ass put in front of me for over 5 years and loved doing it. I’ve had the good the bad and the ugly hundreds of times over, but it all lost it’s luster when I met a submissive [...]
So my slave sends me this email with a link: Using Religion to sell chastity devices http://keptforher.com/goodtest.html I admit that, like him, I was at first both mortified and terribly amused.What’s not amusing about a site that gives us quotes like this? “Our interest is in your marriage growing stronger and more intimate. There are [...]
I often tease my slave about his unwavering love for smoking. Watching him smoke a cigarette is almost like watching someone eat their favorite food. Each drag he takes is long and deep and he cringes if he sees a cigarette discarded before it’s been sucked down to the filter. Since nothing short of a [...]
Last night was the last evening of our first week long ritual. I might have said spanking ritual, but I can imagine all sorts of things I can make him do at midnight so we’ll leave it at ritual. Part of me wants to take pity on his poor ass and let it alone for [...]